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Old 01-19-2013  
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I'm already on my 18th week. My baby bump if indeed more obvious now. I feel awful and ugly as tiny pimples start to appear on my face. I have a few too on my chest. But despite these insecurities, my husband still tells me that I'm the prettiest woman on earth and still finds me hot as ever. He's sweet, I know, but there are times that I feel weak, feel undesirable and I don't have the interest because of the said changes. The thought of having sex with my baby inside feels weird too. He gets pretty annoyed too when I turn him down for sex. And when he realizes that I give him "pity sex" he still gets upset which then leads to a petty fight.

Is having sex while pregnant normal? Please give me some advice on how to balance satisfying my husband, boosting our intimacy while pregnant all at the same time.
Open communication + creativity

Open communication - Tell him what you feel. Be transparent and just be honest. It'll be all worth it if the two of you are always open to each other in any matters aside from sex.

Creativity- I understand that most of the time we feel so uninterested in sex especially when we're pregnant. But are you sure you're not just bored? Check yourself. If you feel like you're getting bored on the same old thing, then try to be creative! Explore the more artistic stuff in carrying the deed out excitingly. Just make sure that what you're performing is safe for the baby. Bear that in mind. Don't get carried away LOL!

Good luck!
 
Old 02-03-2013  
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Yeah, the more your bump gets big, the more hard work it entails so I agree with Abana, make it more creative! That way, despite and in spite being uncomfortable the 2 of you would still be able to enjoy it. That's what matters.
 
Old 04-28-2013  
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Yeah, the more your bump gets big, the more hard work it entails so I agree with Abana, make it more creative! That way, despite and in spite being uncomfortable the 2 of you would still be able to enjoy it. That's what matters.
Ooh, you're our guru starting today!
 
Old 05-05-2013  
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Ooh, you're our guru starting today!
Ditto.

I wouldn't wonder why if Edda releases a book or vid entitled "Do it the Edda way!" LOL! Peace Edda!
 
Old 06-09-2013  
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Ditto.

I wouldn't wonder why if Edda releases a book or vid entitled "Do it the Edda way!" LOL! Peace Edda!
Dalinda, you're just as naughty as Abana... But who knows? It might be the niche I was looking for all along. Haha!
 
Old 06-09-2013  
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Ooh, you're our guru starting today!
Hey Abana, you're mean, I've quoted you as my mentor so it wouldn't be the other way around, haha!
 
Old 07-31-2013  
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Hey Abana, you're mean, I've quoted you as my mentor so it wouldn't be the other way around, haha!
Enough of those bickering you two. To close the case, this might work:

"Do It The Edda Way" by Abana's Publishing Company.

 
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