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Same here, never saw Abortion as an option no matter what unless for medical reasons like the risk of an ectopic pregnancy or something.

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Me too. Unless it's super life-threatening to the mum or the baby, I won't go for an abortion. It's against everything and anything when it comes to my principles.

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I agree. I couldn't see myself as well having abortion as one of my optiobs. Some who are victims of rape opt to choose this path. I don't wanna judge them but for me, I think it's way better to keep it first and get through the pregnancy and just have her baby adopted by a childless couple legally. That's more ideal for me than putting a halt on the baby's life right there and then.

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Yes, I feel the same. If a mom is a rape victim and doesn't wanna keep the child, it's way better to have her child up for adoption instead of an abortion.

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I second the above posts. Personally, I wouldn't opt for one. But if a relative or a close friend opts for one for personal reason I don't have any right to judge them whatsoever. I'll give her a piece of my mind and if she still chooses to, I'd respect that choice.

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Couldn't help but agree with you Baha.

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Uh-huh. We could only advise so much but at the end of the day they're the ones responsible for their own actions- no one to blame but them!

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I second Abana. But sometimes it just pisses me off when you put all of your effort to giving a sound advise and your friend chooses otherwise. Ugh!

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Hahaha, so relatable! It's like wasting your energies (and saliva at that, LOL!)... Oh well, the sacrifices of friendship.

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Oh, so true! I've been on that path numerous times before and believe me, it's stressful and enlightening at the same time.