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Fabiola 01-17-2013 02:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Abana (Post 1414)
I so agree! I do feel like they love their grandkids more than their kids, LOL! We love them for that anyways. :)

Of course we love them for that! LOL :p Having a bit of time for ourselves while the grandparents are doting on the baby is always welcome!

Edda 01-19-2013 06:14 PM

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I might not get an aupair. It's bloody pricey but if we're considering a number of kids then perhaps getting an aupair is a good idea.

Fanny 01-19-2013 09:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Edda (Post 1485)
I might not get an aupair. It's bloody pricey but if we're considering a number of kids then perhaps getting an aupair is a good idea.

Indeed it is bloody expensive Edda! Au pair costs £7-£10/hour. Not only that, we're also responsible for their health insurance and sending them to school to learn a foreign language. The thing is, if your family is quite big, I think it's all worth it. I have a friend who even paid for the visa requirements for the au pair they're hiring from overseas.

Idalia 01-24-2013 10:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Fanny (Post 1512)
Indeed it is bloody expensive Edda! Au pair costs £7-£10/hour. Not only that, we're also responsible for their health insurance and sending them to school to learn a foreign language. The thing is, if your family is quite big, I think it's all worth it. I have a friend who even paid for the visa requirements for the au pair they're hiring from overseas.

Knew someone who has a foreign au pair and didn't realize it's that costly to get one! I won't be getting one for sure.

Gaetana 04-21-2013 09:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Fanny (Post 1512)
Indeed it is bloody expensive Edda! Au pair costs £7-£10/hour. Not only that, we're also responsible for their health insurance and sending them to school to learn a foreign language. The thing is, if your family is quite big, I think it's all worth it. I have a friend who even paid for the visa requirements for the au pair they're hiring from overseas.

Not pricey at all if you've got a big family indeed.

Idalia 05-18-2013 10:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Fanny (Post 1512)
Indeed it is bloody expensive Edda! Au pair costs £7-£10/hour. Not only that, we're also responsible for their health insurance and sending them to school to learn a foreign language. The thing is, if your family is quite big, I think it's all worth it. I have a friend who even paid for the visa requirements for the au pair they're hiring from overseas.

Whoa! That costs a lot of quids. Well, if you've got an extremely huge family and property, it might be all worth it. In my case I couldn't afford one so I'd probably be having my mum to stick around.

Halia 05-19-2013 03:03 PM

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We didn't get a sitter coz it's a bit expensive. Spent a lot of quids during my delivery. I oftentimes have my mum and my bf's mum come over to help me, especially in my case that I had a C-Section. When I get back to work later this month, I might be asking extra help too from other family members. BF and I are taking turns in caring for Liam and I admit, it's pretty hard and challenging. We seldom get to have any "alone" time together.

Dalinda 06-01-2013 11:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Halia (Post 3299)
We didn't get a sitter coz it's a bit expensive. Spent a lot of quids during my delivery. I oftentimes have my mum and my bf's mum come over to help me, especially in my case that I had a C-Section. When I get back to work later this month, I might be asking extra help too from other family members. BF and I are taking turns in caring for Liam and I admit, it's pretty hard and challenging. We seldom get to have any "alone" time together.

It's great knowing that you're able to get some assistance from people close to you. But please make time for you and your BF. It's healthy for your relationship and parenting too.

Cailyn 06-02-2013 01:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Halia (Post 3299)
We didn't get a sitter coz it's a bit expensive. Spent a lot of quids during my delivery. I oftentimes have my mum and my bf's mum come over to help me, especially in my case that I had a C-Section. When I get back to work later this month, I might be asking extra help too from other family members. BF and I are taking turns in caring for Liam and I admit, it's pretty hard and challenging. We seldom get to have any "alone" time together.

Perhaps you should give yourselves a bit of time off together... like go for a dinner outside... a picnic... or just a walk in the park ;)

Halia 06-20-2013 12:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Cailyn (Post 3403)
Perhaps you should give yourselves a bit of time off together... like go for a dinner outside... a picnic... or just a walk in the park ;)

I agree, we definitely need that. I think after a year we could have adjusted by then. Right now we're getting crazy balancing everything! Aaahh!!


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