I'm pregnant and a guy wants to date me

Halia · 01-21-2013

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Originally Posted by Gaetana

So please, whatever decision you're making, please always ask this question: "Is this the best for my baby?"

I agree with the rest of what you said but with this last line, I couldn't agree more.

Halia · 01-21-2013

I'll also feel flattered if someone makes me feel special, especially a guy, despite being pregnant. It's fine to go on a date and get to know him better. That way you'll learn what his real intentions are. Well, you should date but don't put it at the top of your list. Good luck pal!

Fanny · 04-21-2013

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Originally Posted by Gaetana

Oh, dear.
I know it's you and your baby's life. But since you've posted in here asking some advice then I'm very much willing to give my two cents.

No. Not a good idea.

You're having problems with your ex-bf, who happens to be the father of your unborn child, who eventually accepted his child and is very much willing to support the baby financially. You mentioned in here that you're still young. You've also stated that you haven't finished your studies as of yet. Come on, I don't believe that that guy just wants to have mere friendship with you. If you think he's a good guy, tell him beforehand that friendship is the best thing that you could offer. Decide on dating after you give birth. Other than that, please don't. Now is the time to pick up the pieces of your previous conflict. Now is the right time to focus on your baby who needs all the attention. Even moms who aren't first timers still learn from motherhood, what more with a young and first time mum like you? Honey, I've been divorced, got married, have 2 kids and is now hoping for one. Believe me, motherhood isn't easy. My kids have always been my priority. I'd give up everything for them. So please, whatever decision you're making, please always ask this question: "Is this the best for my baby?"

I so agree with you. I feel like I myself have learned a lot from your post.

Edda · 05-11-2013

How are you Idalia? I've seen in another thread that you fell in love now that you're pregnant. You go girl! I'm so happy for you! It's good to be feeling happy while pregnant.

Idalia · 05-26-2013

I appreciate your comments ladies and I respect your views on this as you're all entitled to your own opinions. I apologize if I've offended some but I've decided to give the guy a chance and now we're going steady for a while. I feel like this is the right thing for me to do coz I love him, he loves me and my baby, he's got a stable job and he has proven to me that he could take care of me. I've been through a lot of s*** with my ex and I feel like I needed to be treated right. Moreso, I feel like my baby needs a mum and dad so who am I to deny her of that?

Dalinda · 06-01-2013

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Originally Posted by Idalia

I appreciate your comments ladies and I respect your views on this as you're all entitled to your own opinions. I apologize if I've offended some but I've decided to give the guy a chance and now we're going steady for a while. I feel like this is the right thing for me to do coz I love him, he loves me and my baby, he's got a stable job and he has proven to me that he could take care of me. I've been through a lot of s*** with my ex and I feel like I needed to be treated right. Moreso, I feel like my baby needs a mum and dad so who am I to deny her of that?

I feel for you in thinking that a complete family is the ideal scenario for you and your baby. You don't need to apologize Idalia. We're all here for you despite and in spite of our varying views on this. At the end of the day, you're still the one to decide. And we're still here for you whatever decision it is you've come up with.